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Actually Romantic

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"Actually Romantic" is a song by the American singer-songwriter Taylor Swift from her twelfth studio album, The Life of a Showgirl (2025). Swift wrote and produced the song with Max Martin and Shellback. An incorporation of alternative rock, pop-punk, and guitar pop, the track displays elements of 1990s power pop and slacker rock, with an arrangement characterized by a grunge electric guitar motif. In the lyrics, Swift's narrator expresses her amazement and enjoyment of another woman's attention on her, sarcastically claiming that no other man had showed her as much affection as that woman. Upon its release, various critics and listeners speculated that the track was written as a diss track targeting the British singer Charli XCX and her song "Sympathy Is a Knife" (2024), which was allegedly about Swift. It garnered comparisons to the composition of the Pixies's "Where Is My Mind?" (1988). Music critics generally criticized the song's lyrics and narrative as unmerited, although a few complimented it as a standout from the album for its production. The track peaked in the top 10 on the Billboard Global 200 and on the charts in Australia, Canada, Germany, New Zealand, Portugal, Sweden, and the US.

Infobox

Released
October 3, 2025 (2025-10-03)
Studio
MXMShellback (Stockholm)
Genre
Alternative rock pop-punk guitar pop
Length
2:43
Label
Republic
Songwriters
Taylor Swift Max Martin Shellback
Producers
Taylor Swift Max Martin Shellback

Tables

mw- Chart performance · Charts
Argentina (Argentina Hot 100)
Argentina (Argentina Hot 100)
Chart (2025)
Argentina (Argentina Hot 100)
Peakposition
42
Australia (ARIA)
Australia (ARIA)
Chart (2025)
Australia (ARIA)
Peakposition
8
Brazil (Brasil Hot 100)
Brazil (Brasil Hot 100)
Chart (2025)
Brazil (Brasil Hot 100)
Peakposition
41
Canada (Canadian Hot 100)
Canada (Canadian Hot 100)
Chart (2025)
Canada (Canadian Hot 100)
Peakposition
8
Czech Republic (Singles Digitál Top 100)
Czech Republic (Singles Digitál Top 100)
Chart (2025)
Czech Republic (Singles Digitál Top 100)
Peakposition
26
Denmark (Tracklisten)
Denmark (Tracklisten)
Chart (2025)
Denmark (Tracklisten)
Peakposition
15
Finland (Suomen virallinen lista)
Finland (Suomen virallinen lista)
Chart (2025)
Finland (Suomen virallinen lista)
Peakposition
35
France (SNEP)
France (SNEP)
Chart (2025)
France (SNEP)
Peakposition
50
Germany (GfK)
Germany (GfK)
Chart (2025)
Germany (GfK)
Peakposition
10
Global 200 (Billboard)
Global 200 (Billboard)
Chart (2025)
Global 200 (Billboard)
Peakposition
10
Greece International (IFPI)
Greece International (IFPI)
Chart (2025)
Greece International (IFPI)
Peakposition
7
Iceland (Tónlistinn)
Iceland (Tónlistinn)
Chart (2025)
Iceland (Tónlistinn)
Peakposition
12
India International (IMI)
India International (IMI)
Chart (2025)
India International (IMI)
Peakposition
17
Italy (FIMI)
Italy (FIMI)
Chart (2025)
Italy (FIMI)
Peakposition
67
Latvia Streaming (LaIPA)
Latvia Streaming (LaIPA)
Chart (2025)
Latvia Streaming (LaIPA)
Peakposition
10
Lithuania (AGATA)
Lithuania (AGATA)
Chart (2025)
Lithuania (AGATA)
Peakposition
27
Luxembourg (Billboard)
Luxembourg (Billboard)
Chart (2025)
Luxembourg (Billboard)
Peakposition
9
New Zealand (Recorded Music NZ)
New Zealand (Recorded Music NZ)
Chart (2025)
New Zealand (Recorded Music NZ)
Peakposition
9
Norway (IFPI Norge)
Norway (IFPI Norge)
Chart (2025)
Norway (IFPI Norge)
Peakposition
23
Philippines (IFPI)
Philippines (IFPI)
Chart (2025)
Philippines (IFPI)
Peakposition
14
Philippines (Philippines Hot 100)
Philippines (Philippines Hot 100)
Chart (2025)
Philippines (Philippines Hot 100)
Peakposition
13
Poland (Polish Streaming Top 100)
Poland (Polish Streaming Top 100)
Chart (2025)
Poland (Polish Streaming Top 100)
Peakposition
38
Portugal (AFP)
Portugal (AFP)
Chart (2025)
Portugal (AFP)
Peakposition
10
Singapore (RIAS)
Singapore (RIAS)
Chart (2025)
Singapore (RIAS)
Peakposition
13
Slovakia (Singles Digitál Top 100)
Slovakia (Singles Digitál Top 100)
Chart (2025)
Slovakia (Singles Digitál Top 100)
Peakposition
47
Spain (PROMUSICAE)
Spain (PROMUSICAE)
Chart (2025)
Spain (PROMUSICAE)
Peakposition
27
Sweden (Sverigetopplistan)
Sweden (Sverigetopplistan)
Chart (2025)
Sweden (Sverigetopplistan)
Peakposition
9
United Arab Emirates (IFPI)
United Arab Emirates (IFPI)
Chart (2025)
United Arab Emirates (IFPI)
Peakposition
14
UK Streaming (OCC)
UK Streaming (OCC)
Chart (2025)
UK Streaming (OCC)
Peakposition
8
UK Video Streaming (OCC)
UK Video Streaming (OCC)
Chart (2025)
UK Video Streaming (OCC)
Peakposition
27
US Billboard Hot 100
US Billboard Hot 100
Chart (2025)
US Billboard Hot 100
Peakposition
7
Chart (2025)
Peakposition
Argentina (Argentina Hot 100)
42
Australia (ARIA)
8
Brazil (Brasil Hot 100)
41
Canada (Canadian Hot 100)
8
Czech Republic (Singles Digitál Top 100)
26
Denmark (Tracklisten)
15
Finland (Suomen virallinen lista)
35
France (SNEP)
50
Germany (GfK)
10
Global 200 (Billboard)
10
Greece International (IFPI)
7
Iceland (Tónlistinn)
12
India International (IMI)
17
Italy (FIMI)
67
Latvia Streaming (LaIPA)
10
Lithuania (AGATA)
27
Luxembourg (Billboard)
9
New Zealand (Recorded Music NZ)
9
Norway (IFPI Norge)
23
Philippines (IFPI)
14
Philippines (Philippines Hot 100)
13
Poland (Polish Streaming Top 100)
38
Portugal (AFP)
10
Singapore (RIAS)
13
Slovakia (Singles Digitál Top 100)
47
Spain (PROMUSICAE)
27
Sweden (Sverigetopplistan)
9
United Arab Emirates (IFPI)
14
UK Streaming (OCC)
8
UK Video Streaming (OCC)
27
US Billboard Hot 100
7
Certifications · Certifications
Australia (ARIA)
Australia (ARIA)
Region
Australia (ARIA)
Certification
Gold
Certified units/sales
35,000‡
Canada (Music Canada)
Canada (Music Canada)
Region
Canada (Music Canada)
Certification
Platinum
Certified units/sales
80,000‡
‡ Sales+streaming figures based on certification alone.
‡ Sales+streaming figures based on certification alone.
Region
‡ Sales+streaming figures based on certification alone.
Region
Certification
Certified units/sales
Australia (ARIA)
Gold
35,000‡
Canada (Music Canada)
Platinum
80,000‡
‡ Sales+streaming figures based on certification alone.

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